November 23, 2020
Progressivism is a religion, and like the dour Puritan the Progressive is only comfortable when suffering in what they see as a righteous cause. Like the Monk who beats himself, the Prog seeks to suffer because then they feel their lives hold some meaning. They know they don't have any real purpose otherwise. So they hang on their crosses, enjoying the pain and suffering which they think is coming their way because of their moral and intellectual superiority when in fact it is a pointless exercise done to make them feel superior to others.
Are You Addicted to Unhappiness
I believe we call it masochism.
From the article:
Is there a certain comfortable familiarity with being dissatisfied that becomes an obstacle to change? After getting a glimpse of joy, why do some people immediately shift back to what doesn't work?
There are a number of possible explanations for this "addiction†to unhappiness:
- Deep-rooted insecurity or lack of self-esteem may cause some people to feel undeserving of happiness.
- People who grew up with a parentingstyle characterized by excessive discipline and unrealistic expectations may have learned to equate unhappiness with love and success.
- Lifelong struggles with trauma or other negative experiences may fuel an unconscious desire to continually return to the status quo of unhappiness.
- Some people who seem comfortable in their misery actually may be suffering from an underlying mental health disorder.
- Some people pride themselves on realism, believing that being practical or realistic also means focusing on the negative.
- Because of decisions or experiences in their past, some people are consumed by guilt or regret that they cannot overcome. Instead, they choose to punish themselves and/or others.
- Some people are afraid to feel joy since positive feelings might be a "setup†for disappointment.
- The prospect of happiness strikes fear of the unknown for those who have never felt anything but unhappiness.
- Dissatisfaction becomes a motivator to work harder, change jobs, eat healthier, spend more time with friends and family, or prevent unwanted behaviors or situations.
- Some people make it a personal mission to take on the world’s problems as their own. While noble in some respects, these individuals cannot allow themselves to feel happiness when, for example, people are starving or global warming is damaging the planet.
Then there’s the theory that people like negative feelings. A study by Eduardo Andrade and Joel Cohen, which evaluated why people enjoy horror movies, concluded that some viewers are happy to be unhappy. The researchers found that people experience both negative and positive emotions at the same time, meaning they not only enjoy the relief they feel when the threat is removed but also enjoy being scared. This same theory, they argued, may help explain why humans are drawn to extreme sports and other risky activities that elicit terror or disgust.
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